The Day I Cried in a Changing Room

I still remember the first time I tried on a skirt I'd ordered online. 

I was 19, living at home, and had spent weeks researching the "perfect" starter piece. 

When that package finally arrived (thankfully while my parents were out), I rushed to my room with trembling hands.


But when I slipped it on and looked in the mirror... my heart sank. 

The waist hit all wrong, the hips looked awkward, and instead of feeling feminine and cute, I felt more dysphoric than ever.

I actually cried right there in my bedroom.


If this sounds familiar, you're not alone. 

I've heard this exact story from hundreds of femboys who've reached out to me over the years. 

The cruel irony? 

You finally work up the courage to buy femme clothes, only to have them make you feel worse about your body.


Here's what I learned that day: regular women's clothes aren't designed for AMAB (Assigned Male At Birth) bodies. And that's not your fault.


Why "Regular" Sizing Fails Femboys

Femboy Clothes That Actually Fit: Complete Size Guide for AMAB Bodies

Most clothing brands design for cis women's bodies, which typically have:

  • Wider hips relative to waist

  • Shorter torsos

  • Different shoulder-to-hip ratios

  • Smaller rib cages


AMAB bodies are beautiful too, but they often have:

  • Broader shoulders

  • Longer torsos

  • Narrower hips

  • Different proportions that need different cuts


When you try to squeeze an AMAB body into clothes designed for cis women, it's like trying to fit a square peg in a round hole. 

You end up feeling dysphoric instead of euphoric.


The Real Guide to Femboy Sizing (That Actually Works)

After years of trial, error, and working with hundreds of femboys, here's what actually matters:


For Tops & Crop Tops:

For Tops & Crop Tops
  • Measure your chest at the fullest part

  • Add 2-4 inches for comfort (you don't want it skin-tight)

  • Look for styles with some stretch or flowy cuts

  • Avoid anything that pulls tight across the shoulders

  • [Shop the best selling Femboy Tops →]


For Skirts:

  • Measure your natural waist (usually 1-2 inches above your hip bones)

  • Choose A-line or skater styles that flow over hips

  • Pleated skirts add visual hip width

  • High-waisted styles elongate legs and create curves

  • [Shop the best selling Femboy Skirts→]


For Shorts:


For Lingerie:


The Secret Sauce: Brands That "Get It"

Here's what changed everything for me: finding brands that actually design for people like us.

At FemboyFashion, every single piece is tested on AMAB bodies first. We don't just resize women's clothes, we redesign them. 

Our cuts account for longer torsos, create visual hip curves, and actually flatter your natural body shape.


Real customer feedback: 

"This is the first skirt that made me feel pretty instead of weird." - Alex, 22 

"Finally, thigh highs that don't roll down my legs!" - Jamie, 20 

"I actually looked in the mirror and smiled." - Casey, 24


Your Body Isn't Wrong – Your Clothes Were

Your Body Isn't Wrong – Your Clothes Were

Listen, babe – there's nothing wrong with your body. 

AMAB bodies are gorgeous, and you deserve clothes that make you feel as beautiful as you are.

The problem was never you. It was clothes designed for different body types being sold to everyone.

When you wear clothes actually designed for your body type, magic happens. 

Suddenly you're not fighting against the fabric – you're working with it. 

You stop feeling like you're playing dress-up and start feeling like yourself.


Ready to Feel Amazing in Your Clothes?

Ready to Feel Amazing in Your Clothes

If you're tired of ordering clothes that disappoint, it's time to try pieces actually designed for bodies like yours.

Our Femboy Starter Pack includes perfectly-fitted basics that work together: 


Every piece is designed specifically for AMAB proportions and tested by real femboys.

Plus, everything ships discreetly in plain packaging – because your privacy matters to us.


[Shop the Femboy Starter Pack →]

You deserve to look in the mirror and feel beautiful. Let us help you get there.